8 Ways To Make Her Smile On A Chat Line
Hey there! So, if you’re reading this article, it’s probably because you’re a romantic type. In other words, you call chat lines for the purpose of dating, courting women, or creating bountiful connections with women who you care for. You’re a long-haul type of guy who wants to meet the love of your life. We hear you and we are all for it. Making a woman smile on a date isn’t easy. It’s doubly hard on a phone chat line because the visual cues go out of the window!
But look, take it from Mr. Chat Line – it’s not impossible and it’s definitely something you can master. As you go on more and more chat line dates, you’ll get better at making the gal on the other end of the line swoon. And, you’ll develop a sixth sense almost in that you’ll be able to feel her smiling and falling in love on the other end.
Ready to be that guy? Here are 8 ways you can make your chat line date smile…
Refer To Her Greeting
Women want to know that you are a good listener. If you’ve matched with a woman, then obviously she’s on a phone chat line too. She knows how it works. In other words, she understands that people listen to many greetings before they settle on a match. In order to make her feel special, you can open up the conversation by referring to something she said in her chat line greeting. If she mentioned something unique about herself, or described what she was into, reference that! Make her feel like she’s not just a drop in the bucket in terms of ladies you want to flirt with. This is an awesome foot to start out on to make sure that the rest of your chat line date goes smoothly.
Compliment Her Voice
With phone dating, your voice is your everything. When you date someone face-to-face at a bar or a restaurant, there are so many things that you can compliment. The way she dresses, her hair, her smile are all options to name a few. On a chat line though, you really only have your voice and your personality (which frankly is how dating should be anyways as everything else seems kind of shallow). So, throw her a compliment about her voice. Tell her it’s sexy (without sounding like a creep) or that she sounds really sweet. Even if her voice is a little weird, throw her a bone. It only does you good to make her feel confident on your phone date with her!
Make Up A Hypothetical In-Person Date
People hop on the line for plenty of reasons. Maybe they are shy and prefer this type of dating, maybe they are busy, maybe they simply enjoy talking over the phone. Whatever it is, chat lines always offer the possibility of meeting IRL (in real life). That’s kind of the magic and tension behind this form of romantic encounters. A great way to bring a smile to your cutie’s face is to walk her though what a hypothetical IRL date would look like. Would you take her to a nice restaurant and chat over a bottle of wine? Are you the guy who is into the movie date? Let her know what you would do if you were there with her.
Ask Her In-Depth Questions
For people who know how to ask deep questions and carry conversations, chat lines are a total breeze. Now, this might not be you right now but it will come in time. In the spirit of making your gal feel special, you’ll want to ask her in-depth emotional questions. Don’t get into anything too serious unless the chat naturally goes in that direction, but ask her about her life. Show her that you genuinely want to know about what she’s got going on. Hate to say it, but women far outsmart men in the emotional intelligence department. That’s why these types of questions work. It shows her that you’ve got a deep emotional capacity as well and that you aren’t afraid to get into deeper waters.
Get Vulnerable
Speaking of getting deep, don’t be afraid to share some vulnerable things about yourself! Sometimes, phone chat dates turn into therapy sessions and that might not be your style. So, when you are getting vulnerable, don’t think ‘sad.’ Just think ‘personal.’ Tell her about how you grew up, your family, your dreams and fears. Give her a peek behind the exterior. Chat lines are made for this type of open communication. You’ve got to take the leap.
Be The Hero
Though this might not be the most PC sentiment, it’s pretty common for most women to enjoy the hero type of man. They like to know that someone wants to take care of them, no matter how independent they might be. So, when she opens up to you, be an open ear. Be that romantic white knight that she’s secretly hoping you are by showing her that you are emotionally strong and vulnerable at the same time!
Crack A Joke
Ok, this advise is really only for the dudes who are actually funny. Several guys think that they are, but they actually bring dad jokes to the table or come off a little strong. However, if you’ve got humor on your side don’t be afraid to use it. You are trying to make her smile after all, a laugh wouldn’t hurt!