GuySpy’s Tips On How To Grow Your Relationship On Gay Chat Lines
If you are a gay man who has been in the dating world for over a minute, you know that a long-lasting relationship is hard to come by. Sure, you can get all dressed up and go out to a gay bar, but that usually results in a one-night stand…friends with benefits at best. Is it fun to go out and find a handsome man to take home with you? Absolutely. But at some point, a need for more may arise; a need for something deeper and more intimate than a quick toss in the hay.
Gay bars are cesspools for drunken men trying to get off. Most of the gay apps out there are geared toward men ready to drop trou and get busy. There just aren’t that many options when it comes to finding a man to take your time with…get to know him and form a meaningful relationship with him. That’s exactly why we are head over heels for gay chat lines these days. It is the perfect place to meet a man who is looking for the same things that you are looking for.
There are so many gay men on chat lines, no matter the time of day/night, so if you have an odd job that won’t be an issue anymore! Finding someone that piques your interest is rather easy; lust and infatuation fade quickly though, and then what? Actually being able to grow a relationship via chat line after finding that potential man of your dreams is where the real work comes in, especially because you won’t be able to look your new beau in the eyes and hold his hand while grabbing a cup of Joe. So how can you rev up your relationship engine via chat line? GuySpy is here to be your dating guide.
Be Honest
Of course, you should always be upfront with what you are looking for in a relationship/out of a partner in your chat line greeting, but that’s only a short snippet into that beautiful mind of yours. Once you have established that there is a connection with your mystery man, it’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty. There is no need to waste anybody’s time or money. Ain’t nobody got time for that!
Let Your Freak Flag Fly
Don’t pretend to be somebody your not in order to please your chat line buddy. You need to allow them to get to know you, and that means being vulnerable and talking about things that you wouldn’t normally want to talk about. The only way to grow a relationship is by trusting your man with all of those weird and dark crevices you’ve got hiding. We see them. We accept them. And so should he. If you can’t be yourself, there is no relationship there to grow.
Don’t Be A Queen
Now is not the time to be self-centered and talk about “me, me, me, me, me”. To take your relationship to the next level, you have to show a ton of interest in your partner and his life and dreams and fears and….you get it. Plus, if you’re not interested in hearing about him, what are you even?!
Compliment
Don’t forget to compliment your man. Everybody has their insecurities and hearing kind words from your chat line man will do wonders for not only your confidence but your relationship as well. Be each other’s biggest cheerleaders. Always.